screw love

What does it take to find a lost love?
a. Money
b. Luck
c. Smarts
d. Destiny

i swear you know the answer to this one. taken into jamal and latika's case from the movie slumdog millionaire, then the answer would have to be all of the above. but thats the thing about movies--they show the rarest of chances to happen. take slumdog millionaire, for instance. how many of you have come to accept that childhood sweethearts who have been drifted apart "twice" in their lives can still find a way to reunite and live a 'happily ever after' is possible?

there are only two kinds of love in this world: your first love, the person whom your heart still longs for after three years he/she had last answered your phone call, and your lost love, the one you're truly destined for but whom you still insist to be your first love.

lets get serious here. first love has always been gruesome--it's like taking your virginity away and continuing to haunt your very being up to the present. but, dont worry, there will always be a point in our lives that we come to accept the fact we arent virgins anymore, may it be physical or emotional. meanwhile, theres the lost love. its really lost, actually, even in its existence. no one has yet mentioned about it in full details, except in the stated movie, of course. but, hey, it needs all the extra credit.

lost love is far from the former's circumstances. it doesnt strip you but instead rejuvenates your imaginary torn off hymen clinging an extra thought "hey, im virgin again! it only means one thing!" but, no, dont take its mystical gift for granted, especially for the "green" selfish reasons. lost love only comes once, and so does your reborn virginity.

therefore, you should work hard to maintain a healthful relationship with your lost love. after all, it took all of your sweat to search for him/her. to those who havent found theirs yet, you might be wondering how can one be so sure that the guy/gal standing across the street would be the lost love you are trying to find and would not react in a way "what the f*ck? lost love, screw you. find yourself a stripper in a brothel or i'll push your ass into a running bus". well, have you tried searching under the sofa? kidding aside, to save you from insurance fees, its really up to you actually. no love expert can answer that question but your self. let the love magic do its booty thing. you'll never know--that guy/gal across the street is actually your lost love. and if not, dont blame me for getting your arse kicked. it was a wild guess.

so, do you still believe that childhood sweethearts who have been drifted apart "twice" in their lives can still find a way to reunite and live a 'happily ever after'? maybe yes, taken from jamal and latika's account. but jamal's a lucky bastard considering the fact that latika is his first and lost love. but thats the thing i learned from watching movies..

..the rarest of chances happen.